Is Your Marriage Valid?

“Hhmmm.. If it doesn’t work, it’s bye-bye and back to Hollywood”?
It appears that part of the strategy to go against the Sacrament of Communion and Our Lord’s teaching about adultery is to go against the sacrament of marriage, by actually going against all marriages. Fifty percent of the marriages celebrated in the West could be invalid, the Bishop of Rome is said to have said. It is, at any rate, certain that he has mentioned another bishop saying the same, and apparently not in order to deny the theory.
In order to destroy communion by allowing it to adulterers it is necessary that faith in marriage be destroyed in the first place. When that is gone, everything else will crush down from itself.
Are you sure, then, that you are validly married? What about your neighbours? Your colleagues? Your wife’s childhood friends? There can be, apparently, no certainty about anyone, at least not anyone we do not knew very intimately at the moment he married.
The consequence of this is that the difference between married couples and concubines or public adulterers is blurred away. Marriage is not a sacrament anymore, merely a supposition, and one with very uncertain odds; or ask yourself how safe you would feel if the doctor would say to you that you are ill, with a 50% probability of survival.
Yes, the Joneses down the road live together, but they live like husband and wife. How can we know they are less husband and wife than half the Catholic couples of our acquaintance? She even has his name! Isn’t that cute! Yes, the Church says they are adulterers in theory, but in practice the Church says that there is no way to know who is married and who isn’t, is there now?
This, in turn, throws a more than sinister light on the entire edifice of the Church. If the Church founded by Christ cannot give even a modicum of realistic assurance that she, as a rule, imparts sacraments validly, what is the Church worth? If that on which the entire human social construct is founded cannot be guaranteed as being the proper way, and the married couple a properly married couple, what is the Church there for? If marriage is at the very basis of human civilisation, but the Church cannot ensure she makes even that function properly, what kind of Bride is this? At that point, the Bride of Christ would be questioned exactly in the same way as all other brides are questioned.
In order to allow his punters to keep paying, Cardinal Kasper openly attacks not only the sacrament of Communion, and not only Christ’s world on adultery, but the institution of marriage itself. The Bishop of Rome, whether out of great stupidity or evil mind, supports him in any way he can, short of open approval.
In just a few months, you will have to decide to whom to give your allegiance. No Pope has the right to demand that we sacrifice our allegiance to Christ on the altar of “unity”, of “obedience” to earthly authority – and be it the Pope’s – or of a “collegiality” that cannot have any value if it goes against Christ. Much less can it be sacrifice in the name of a supposed “Spirit”, now evidently intentioned to make Christianity obsolete.
Therefore, no Pope is due obedience in matters in which he puts himself squarely against Christ, and no amount of Clericalist fluff can change anything in that.
And so I ask again: is your marriage valid? Your neighbours’? Your relatives’? Is the Church able to validly impart Sacraments? Is Christ to be followed in preference to strange novelties?
I have the impression that the final destination of a great number of souls will be decided from the way they have, in life, answered this question.
Mundabor
Posted on May 23, 2014, in Traditional Catholicism. Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.




















What you have written is chilling. Mary and Joseph, pray for us! St. Peter pray for us. St. Bridget, pray for us. St. Monica, pray for us. St. Thomas More, pray for us. All married saints, pray for us!
Chilling reflection in your conclusion. I must say that I have felt so offended for both God and my own marriage as well as others, ever since the idea of admitting the re-married to full communion. The reason is the same as when I was offended by my cousin’s live in boyfriend when she flouted a ‘promise ring’ (well you may ask!).
It is a slur and a slight against those all who make the commitment and the sacrifices, who suffer willingly for the sake of loving God and reflecting this to others, who honour the Sacrament and the institution for all it is, as well as the promise made to welcome children born of the marriage willingly and lovingly from God. (It always struck me that some people think that means yes but only the first three, then…well!)
It trivializes my 21yrs ( and others 60+ yrs) of true married life! It makes “the ideal” out to be some sort of fantasy that we have constructed and I think he insinuates that WE are actually fashioning fantasies out of our married realities somehow and deceiving ourselves! Honestly I can’t go on- it is too deeply offensive.
Well let’s see: if 50% of the Novus Ordo Abomination Masses might be invalid because one or more of the conditions for validity were not present, then maybe…Pope Francis the Red-Nosed has a point! Though I’m certain that was not the point of his evil strategy.
It is not realistic to think that 50% of the NO masses are invalid.
You can go to almost every NO Mass in the solid confidence that the Church of Christ will provide you with valid sacraments, however mediocre the rite.
When things are so extreme that there is reason to believe the mass may be not valid, you will notice it at their being extreme.
M
I am a recent convert. My husband and I have been married 31 years, and we have 4 daughters. We were married by a judge in a courthouse in Wyoming. I would like to believe my marriage is valid, just based upon the fact that we have been married 3 decades – just 2 short of a full rosary.
I don’t know.
You should ask Cardinal Kasper.
He would start to make very invasive questions about whether you really, really, REALLY meant it (but: really really!), because you see, in this day and age this would be rather uncommon…
May I ask whether your husband converted too?
M
It seems the “attack on marriage” is real, after all – but coming from Kasper the Unfriendly Ghost, & the Pope. I’m not holding my breath waiting for all those Catholics who got so het about the “attack on marriage” to face the fact that its coming from a direction they never expected it to come from. That alleged percentage is an utter scandal – and if the figure is seriously thought to be anything like as high as that, the question arises: how ever did that come about ?
Every time such a problem arises, that is another stake in the heart of the Vampire Council. And another argument against beatifying the man thanks to whom the rot set in.
Dope Francis and/or his minions didn’t invent this legalistic trickery. It was used long ago to give an annulment to one (or more) of the Kennedys, who had been married for many years and had multiple chiidren. I assume they weren’t the first, either.
Pretty much nothing is ever invented. The problem with Francis is that he wants to make of the pathology the physiology.
M